My Anger

Yesterday we were having a discussions about being "Jats" very aggressive . Then one of my friends pointed out that i curb my basic nature and by nature i am very aggressive . I agreed to the fact and found this topic worth mentioning here as controlling my anger has been a conscious effort from my side.


I always had a belief that to achieve something in ur life one has to be aggressive and haughty. The quantum of these things depends on ur targets. But we have to give them a form which is more creative and amenable. We can take the example of "Gandhiji". One can not deny the fact that he was not haughty or adamant. He too had quite a lot anger towards the issues in the country prevalent at that time. But he had mastery in overcoming his anger and giving it a direction which tried to deal with the actual problem instead of symptoms. That was the reason he won so much respect from the masses and this is the point i want to raise.

Having anger is quite human,but instead of showing a reaction at that moment try to hold it. Think over it in ur leisure time , try to go into the roots of it instead of just looking at the upper visible part and then fight against that root cause. Try to express it in a more constructive and creative way instead of fighting or arguing. I know it is easier said than done but the base rule is "don't react " , hold it for some time and most likely when u will think over it with cool mind u wont feel so bad. It will take time but with conscious efforts, one can learn it and become more tolerant.